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Saturday in our early childhood class the parents go into another room to talk about being parents. As we were leaving Arthur asked Lewis if he needed help washing his hands before snack. Even before we had two kids I always loved the idea that having a second child would be a chance for Art to have a friend. And they are certainly that. But I also love that Art looks out for Lewis. He'll lean and ask Lewis a question softly and extra clear, he'll hold his hand or give him random hugs. Art often advises me and Jessica how best to remedy Lew's crying, and his advice is often hilarious and sometimes right. It's also true that we don't blog and are less interested in sharing all those times they argue and cry or what not--it's not all utopia. But it really is terrific to be there and see those moments when Arthur really sees his brother as his little brother who might need a little help. It's unbearably sweet.

Ever since Art was a tiny boy we would take bike rides to the cafe ( May Day cafe ) and then walk over to Powderhown Park to feed the ducks and play on the playground. With the recent 40-degree days I figured NOW IS THE TIME, so I biked the kids over in the trailer for a tasty breakfast and then to the park. Of course it was snowy but fun for both kids. It really does get dark and cold in Minnesota! Jessica just said this morning how much happier and brighter she's feeling lately that it's been warmer with longer days. Art is doing one of Jessica favorite things: crunching through thin layers of ice. If you're walking with Jess and she sees a puddle with thin ice there is no stopping her. She has to crunch it and observe the fascinating behaviors of cracking ice. "Lewis, do you want to hold my hand!?" said Art. "Uh huh," said Lew.

(photos from Ms. Jen , Art's preschool teacher)